John 20:17 2026-09-12
Jesus said to her, “Don’t hold me, for I haven’t yet ascended to my Father; but go to my brothers, and tell them, ‘I am ascending to my Father and your Father, to my God and your God.’”
What it means
In this moment, Mary Magdalene has just recognized the risen Jesus and — understandably — wants to hold on to him. His response isn't a rebuke; it's a redirection. He's telling her that this reunion isn't the final form of things. Something larger is still unfolding, and clinging to this moment would actually keep her from participating in it. Then he does something striking: he calls his disciples 'my brothers' and describes God as 'your Father' — not just mine. He's collapsing the distance between himself and the people around him.
For today
Most of us know the feeling of grabbing onto something good and not wanting it to change — a season of life, a relationship at its peak, a version of someone we love. Mary had just gotten Jesus back from the worst loss imaginable. Of course she wanted to hold on. But Jesus is essentially saying: what's coming next is better than this moment frozen in place, and you have a role in it — go, tell, move. There's also something quietly radical about him saying 'my Father and your Father, my God and your God.' He's not keeping God at a distance as a private possession. He's sharing access. In a world full of gatekeeping — who belongs, who's in, who has pull — that kind of open-handed invitation still cuts against the grain.
Takeaway
The things worth holding onto are usually best honored by letting them move you forward, not keeping them locked in place.